Diseases of the stomach indicate the need to grow

Gastric patient as a real chick, does not notice that the "adult" life is passing him. It is, in fact, has never flew out of the nest and does not know the freedom inherent in the following - the adult stage of development. Nestling frantically clinging to its nest - one familiar to him bastion of reliability. In addition, the nest is so warm, cozy and comfortable that decide to exchange it for an unknown and possibly dangerous cold and the outside world is extremely difficult. ( "Now, if the nest was worse Yes, if only it is weary ") The hardest thing to break out of this protected little world and come face to face with the harsh reality pampered and spoiled children (mama's sons and a daughter). They are not used to meet their own failures and to fight for something, because their desires are always fulfilled, "as if by magic," says a well-known therapist Ruediger Dahlke.

The typical patient with gastric childhood surrounded by comfortable atmosphere "womb." However, the gain required for adult life male aggression can only be entered into open confrontation. To learn how to resist the fear, the hero has to go out into the world. Sometimes the only symptoms may force him to do it, otherwise it will remain until the end of lying or sitting in the nest.

Symptoms of a very painful way to show that in this finite world "something wrong", that the real world - it's not paradise country of milk and honey. They also allude to the fact that deep down people and he already longs to leave this heavenly place separate. To get up to the wheel of life, it is necessary to overcome the regressive aspirations and realize that the satisfaction of their needs is no longer anything for granted. To get something, you have to work for something to strive for.

This "baby" struggle for freedom is reflected in a number of mythological stories. Percival was such a pampered and spoiled child. His mother Hertseloida son dressed in girl's dresses, hoping to protect him from the dangers of courtly life. Percival had become independent in order to subject it to leave the golden cage.

Legend leaves no doubt that the efforts of the good, caring, custodial mother the child made the process very complex. But Parzival is released from custody, and the mother goes through all the dangers of growing up. So it becomes, in the end, a knight of the Round Table, and even finds the Grail, ie, finds ultimate freedom. Another example - the life of the Buddha. Born into the royal family, the Buddha lived in comfort, luxury and safety, but left everything to among the turmoil of the world to find their own path to maturity and perfection.

Typical gastric patient - a man stuck at the level of the children's world. And he is convinced that the way it should be. (Psychoanalysts in this regard, talk about the oral-aggressive fixation.) The desire to remain forever "darling of fortune" and get all the desired on-demand becomes such a person has a natural claim. However, in return he does not want to give. This behavior is typical for early childhood. Only the claims level in adults is much higher demands are made to the surrounding world. Such an adult, do not give up the dream of paradise world "here and now" wants to remain permanently fed and happy, be a sort of center of the universe. If the world does not justify his expectations, he takes offense, and sometimes offended. This "sour" response brings us to the second pillar of gastric problems.

If the patient hides from himself that he was sweet to the soul, it will inform the body of acid regurgitation. With such belching, heartburn and hydrochloric acid rises up the esophagus. This symptom may appear earlier than gastric ulcers, and accompanied by all the "gastric career" of the patient from the beginning. Body obviously very painful indicates how acidic life leading man, and makes such existence literally burning problem. Sour belching upward symbolizes aggressive Martian energy, which strongly affirms its right to life. Lack of education and excess mucus production of hydrochloric acid can cause ulceration. In duodenal ulcer come to the fore, the excess production of hydrochloric acid, gastric ulcer - a lack of mucus.

But not every patient gastric easy to recognize the spiritual "chick." If such a person has gone through a lot of frustration, children's slot may still be uncomfortable for him. Then he leaves it, however reluctantly, but often only for a new twist on elsewhere (on another level).

Aggressive energy can be directed not to start on the physical "oxidation", and on the implementation of ambition. However, in this way often come "impregnated acid" candidates for duodenal ulcer (people "duodenal type"). They are unconsciously trying to advance to protect themselves from possible failures when their unbridled desires will not be fulfilled. When compensation deep frustration arises so powerful aggressive potential that a person "of duodenal type" may even achieve high guideline. But this is only the compensation of unconscious desire for dependence. Man hopes to become boss, the sole leader, he will gain full independence from others and thus protect themselves from disappointment. Unfortunately, these hopes were mercilessly debunked life. Broken dreams return man in the "sour" state, and increases the risk of stomach ulcers or (even more) of the duodenum.

Even if all this begins to rotate around the patient (usually this is easier to achieve people 'gastric-type "), it still can not govern. After all, the real ruler must be an adult. And the "chick", reached leadership positions, claims arise from the children's world. However, at this level, to see the world's paradise country manages long. "Chick" expects unconditional love and devotion. Such claims must meet the chief subordinates. Alas, their sacrifice does not go to any comparison with the parent. All employees, and at the same time partners have to constantly monitor. We partner should be no self-interest, nor any whatsoever personal space. "Decent" partner, must become a "second mother", always ready to sacrifice themselves in the name of a loved one "big kid" with no hope of any gratitude.

It is no wonder that very soon the problems arise when interacting with this "heavenly attendants." Man "gastric-type" will avoid direct confrontation. Rather, it will count on the criticism, ridicule or caustic podkusyvanie (just like biting toddler!).

But, as practice shows, the compensation force that has grown out of frustration, rarely enough to achieve a leadership position. More often, potential patients are stuck "somewhere halfway." To a greater extent than top managers and company presidents, gastric ulcer and duodenal ulcer tend employees middle managers. Being "between heaven and earth", they are often forced to provide services to all around, instead of getting your own satisfaction. Most of them do not have the courage and confidence to provide an outlet for their aggression by caustic remarks and open protest. In addition, such tricks lurking contradict requirements of security and recognition. Therefore, the problem falls on the level of the body and begins to develop the excess acid. The situation in which the person is torn on several fronts, is reflected in the self-destruction taking place in peptic ulcer disease.

A special group of people, in which the duodenal ulcer is the most common account for guild masters. They run a variety of workers, but in the hierarchy are far below the foremen. They are in a very difficult psychological situation, often feeling like a "useless" and "humiliated", which naturally leads to deep disappointment. Due to the dependent position (the master is not a leader in the true sense of the word), they do not dare to openly express their grievances and have quietly "stewing inside."

The problem that confronts human symptom of excessive production of acid, is obvious. The idea is to find the right place to exit aggression. Regressive effeminacy should be mobilized to overcome this aggressive forces of Mars. Gastric patient must destroy their long occupied the nest. This task is not as difficult as it may seem. It's long been a nest of prison. Parting with him means to use the chance yet to become an adult, and organize your life on the new rules. We need to understand that not everything revolves around the stomach, and expressions of love can not be reduced to an infinite maternal care and feeding of a spoon. Be in the eyes of others "defenseless chick" who only knows how widely razevat beak is natural for the baby. Now it's time to learn how to receive and give love through the heart and genitals. It should also be understood that the stomach is no longer the "center of life", and, most importantly, that he is not suited for the expression of aggression.

It is not surprising that men suffer from ulcers are three times more often than women. A man is more difficult to reconcile with the principles of the moon than a woman who is speaking in symbolic language, here (at the level of the stomach) is dealing with his native area. In addition, the men in our society is more difficult to achieve the state of natural protection that many women are married. The latter explains why women are more likely to develop in adulthood. Often security, which gave marriage as the years go. Or the woman unknowingly goes in search of his male soul - his animus. Men, on the other hand, the risk of developing an ulcer decreases after fifty years. Obviously, in old age the power of Mars is weakened forces. Times of male bravado replaced by the quiet life in retirement, which is the taste people "gastric type."